People always say that sharing is caring. Somehow i do agree with it. Yup, very true..Coz, somehow when we share something wif others, we will feel a bit relief and it feels like we are not alone. Though to some, telling others our problem which is quite personal might not seem very much comfortable and we feel a bit unsecure of whether that person could keep the secret n wont tell others. Well yes, the security level of it is questionable, but still it is not wrong to put some hope that the 'listener' will shut his/her mouth up.
Few days ago, i went to a kopitiam in KB wif a fren of mine. She shared her problem and i listened, of course. Somehow i cud see that she was a bit relief after sharing the problem. i might not be able to solve her problem, but somehow i think i have eased off her felling.
I used to think that it is not safe to tell others our problems and it is best that we just keep it to ourself so that we won't get hurt if that person tells other people our problem or secret. But then i said, it's time for me to trust other people which then i did. I believe that if we do good to others, others will do good to me too. Therefore, if i keep others' secrets, they will keep mine too. So, i keep their secrets and i hope my secrets are safe with them too. Can u keep a secret?-Sophie Kinsella...
it's always good to share problems or private emotions with someone we trust. personally, it took me a while to be able to share with someone comfortably. not only because i'm afraid the secret will get leak but more on the self-pride. to share or tell problems means to disclaim the power of being strong. but guess what? i have learn to share problems with people i trust and that, my dearest fren, includes u. :D
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